Monday, March 19, 2012

Don't Let Your 'X' Steal This From You



Going through a divorce can leave you feeling robbed.
Whether it's stuff in the house, money in the bank, or time with the kids which was split in half or worse, split unevenly....it can leave us thinking we got the crappy end of the stick.

The deal is, we get attorney's to divide those things fairly, but it doesn't always turn out that way.

It is what it is sometimes and we cannot control it.

Though there is something in which we do have control over....and that is our Faith.

Faith is a strong power, and if you don't have it, life can be bleak; getting through tough times can seem impossible...and our attitude: hopeless.

At one point, I lost faith. I had no hope, no positive outlook and I right before one of the best outcomes of my life, I was ready to give up everything I ever wanted and deserved.

I allowed my 'X' to rob me of my freedom of life.
I let him steal my joy....
I gave up control of my heart, my drive and my belief.

Don't let this happen to you.

Faith is what makes us go on. Faith is what makes us get back up when we are pushed down.
Faith is what keeps us glued together and wake up tomorrow with new focus and hope.

During our divorce, just like during our marriage, my 'X' didn't steal anything.....

If I wanted Faith, I should have stepped up, and stood up, for it...

I stand here as a testament today; if you don't have Faith, it's not because someone (namely your 'X') stole it from you, it's because you let it go.

Be strong, have hope, and believe in a better omorrow.... for soon you will be a stronger you....

Nothing can stand in your way....only if you let it....

During or After Divorce, How Do You Keep Your Faith?





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