Divorce 101

Divorce is an opportunity to learn; to gain knowledge about ourselves, our strengths and our weaknesses.

It’s a chance for us to understand why we do the things we do and how it affects us.

Looking back at a marriage and divorce- they aren’t ever years just wasted in our lives, nor are they just documents filed in court.

They're actually years of choices, behaviors and habits, that if looked at carefully, can lead us to a deeper understanding of ourselves as well as help us have a better future.

But…. if we choose to blame outside circumstances (or people, i.e.; the ‘X’) and remain in denial of having any part in our situation, we will surely miss the point of what we are supposed to learn.

Take some time to  look back and think about what led you here, even before your marriage...

This is Divorce 101. 

I recommend taking it, if you haven't already.

'All men make mistakes, but only wise men learn from their mistakes.'- Winston Churchill 

Truly,

Amber